Wednesday, 26 November 2008

New Flat


We are finally in our long term place! We can start putting down, albeit temporary, roots. Our place is great! It has regular-sized rooms, meaning you can get by the table without turning sideways and you can push back your chair without hitting the wall. The girls can even do laps around the dining table and our barren living room makes a great dance floor. The bathroom is big enough that we can set up the drying rack in there instead of the living room. And I can even buy multiple boxes of our staple foods because there is plenty of cupboard space. The only sacrifice we made was that it is only two bedroom, but at least the master bedroom is big enough for a desk – so Ryan can have some peace.

Kissed a lot of frogs to find this place. The way they do real estate here is insane. The agents will only show you the places that are listed with them. And even then, if the listing across the street is with a different office – too bad, you have to go with an agent from that office. I went out with no less than 10 rental agents. I have to admit it was kind of fun seeing the old buildings around here, but it got a little old and tedious trying to manage all those contacts. My criteria got pretty specific after a while, walking distance to the kids’ schools and access to either a park or communal gardens being the big ones. Our kids are just not used to being cooped up.

Notting Hill is famous for its “Secret Gardens”. They are basically private parks that are only accessible to the residents whose homes are adjacent to it. I had the kids with me one day when we saw our first one and they took off running in sheer joy. I thought to myself, this is what we need. We aquired the key to the gate today with the help of our new neighbor whose wife is from Texas and their twin eight year old girls. We were thrilled to find a “climbing frame” (jungle gym) and a “Wendy house” (playhouse) as well as a tire swing. Our agent had told us that our gardens did not have a playground – so glad she was wrong. I think I was more excited than the kids. For them it is just another park. For me, it means we don’t have to make a major excursion of it each time they need to get their sillys out.

The flat is on the 3rd floor (no lift). The way they slice up these old Victorian places, you are either going to have the ground and lower ground (dark and dank) or the top two. So it’s stairs and sunlight versis no stairs and mold. Or you might find a flat on just one floor that has a mini fridge or only a shower –no bath. Or you could get all five floors if you don’t plan on sending your kids to college.

It was unfurnished. I’ve found beds and tables and chairs, but on the lookout for a futon couch for the dance floor. Doing my best to find things second hand, both to lessen our environmental impact and because we will just be selling it all when we leave. Lots of options there, but it’s really time consuming. There’s a UK equivalent to Craig’s List and I always keep an eye out as I walk up and down Portobello road for the school run (Portobello Road is famous for its antique market, and attracts all kinds of garage sale type vendors). I even discovered a really cool auction house that sells decent furniture in addition to antiques.

The kids got an early Christmas gift from Nana and Papa. Their first morning here they got to “scooter” to school. They LOVE that. Now instead of prodding them along, it’s all I can do to keep up! We had a big talk about safety and they have been very good about stopping at every corner. Also, sadly, we saw an elderly woman who was hit by a bus being attended by paramedics. I think that put some fear into them.

Looking forward to discovering all the new amenities within walking distance. I’ll be visiting the local internet cafĂ© a lot, because typical of English inefficiency, it looks like we will be without internet for a week!

Halloween











I didn’t know what we were going to do for Halloween. Go knock on a bunch of strangers’ doors? And they don’t do it up like we do - we were lucky to find pumpkins. They were not at every grocery store like you would expect in the US. Had to go to one of the Portobello Market street vendors for that one.
Luckily, the only American (Asian American/Columbian to be exact) family in Fiona’s class invited us to trick or treat in their communal garden. We went ‘round the garden knocking on people’s back doors. The kids had a ball and it seemed much safer than wandering the streets of London looking for inviting ground floor flats that open to the street.

The next day we embarked by train on our first trip to the English countryside. We picked up a rental car when we got there and Ryan mastered driving on the opposite side of the road while shifting with the left hand (all the while with a lot of squabbling in the back seat). We stayed at a working farm and the girls got a kick out of seeing the sheep and petting the horses.


We visited a friend in this cute little town called Long Buckby. His house is a converted school house from the 1800’s. It had so much character. He turned the auditorium into a gym with original wood floors and mirrors. It quickly became the girls’ private dance studio. Mitch, the perfect English gentlemen (think cool, fun and welcoming, not old stodgy and stuffy) not only endured the show, but also taught the girls some boxing moves.


Half term

The kids both had the week off for “half-term”. Ryan did not, but we three girls went back to being tourists. We went to the Science Museum, saw an Imax movie, went to the Natural History Museum, and saw the children’s play Hoof and the puppet show Sleeping Beauty. All this was followed by pumpkin carving, trick or treating and packing for our weekend trip. I’m exhausted!

Monday, 10 November 2008

On Voting from Abroad

11.05.08

Just watched Obama's victory speech. What a speaker. He really is inspirational. He did a great job of making the success one for all American people, while still maintaining the importance of the first black president and even citing specific examples in our history. He must have a great team of speech writers. Who dug up that story about the 106 year old lady for him?

Makes me proud to be an American - which in this time of economic crisis, and "world in peril" is what we will need to tackle the problems we face.

All of London is thrilled with the results. Yesterday, everyone I encountered asked me if I had voted. They were all for Obama. I feel like now when I say I am American, I can hold my head higher.